by Davidicus Wong, M.D. February 21st, 2021
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The pandemic has put many of our relationships to the test.
To reduce the spread of infections, we’ve had to connect with our friends at a distance, virtually by phone, text, social media or video.
The elderly have been hit hard by both the virus itself and the social isolation required to reduce its spread.
Many in our community feel shut in. Family and friends may be able to drop off groceries at the door, but the close presence of others for those hours we once took for granted are sorely missed. Some have no family nearby to help. Many have become depressed, missing the last remaining pleasures of a long life.
One thing my wife (and our dog) have appreciated most is that our kids are home all the time. They’ve been able to study and work from home. No matter what my workday brings, I’ve enjoyed our family dinners, evenings and weekends together.
But I know, this has not been a blessing to others, who may feel trapped in their own homes. Difficulties in family relationships may be amplified by confinement at home.
Others struggle to find shelter during these cold winter days and nights. The homeless are more vulnerable to mental and physical illness in addition to COVID-19.
If you or someone you know is struggling with relationships or difficult emotions, talk to your family doctor who can support you and connect you to resources in our community. Burnaby Family Life offers counselling to women who have experienced trauma due to abuse and violence and to children and youth who have witnessed domestic violence or any type of abuse. Check their website at burnabyfamilylife.org or phone (604) 659-2200.
Cameray Child and Family Services is a community-based agency committed to the strengthening of individuals and families through a spectrum of services including counselling, education, outreach and advocacy. Check their website at cameray.ca or call (604) 546-9449.
Burnaby Neighbourhood House offers a wide range of programs, services and events (vitually during the pandemic) bringing together community members of all ages and backgrounds in a positive and supportive environment. Check their website at burnabynh.ca or call (604) 431-0400 for South Burnaby and (604) 294-5444 for North Burnaby.
In Burnaby, our community organizations have been are working together throughout the pandemic through our Primary Care Network. To discover a variety of resources available for those in need, check burnabycoronavirus.com.
I’ll be giving a free online talk on The Positive Potential of Our Relationships at 7 pm on Thursday, February 25th, 2021. As part of the Burnaby Division of Family Practice’s Empowering Patients public health education program, I’ll be sharing practical ways to foster healthy relationships and social connections during this pandemic and beyond.
For more information, please check https://divisionsbc.ca/burnaby/for-patients/empowering-patients or email Leona Cullen at lcullen@divisionsbc.ca